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Getting and Giving Rebukes Sruvey
May 13, 2009

Which would you prefer (Rate from most preferred to least)? (1 = Most Preferred)

Answer

Number of Response(s)
Ranking Score*
Going to the dentist.
27
1.9
Hitting your thumb with a hammer.
27
2.8
Spraining an ankle.
27
3.0
Rebuking someone.
27
2.3

*The Rating Score is the weighted average calculated by dividing the sum of all weighted ratings by the number of total responses.

When rebuked at work which is your typical response?

Answer

Number of Response(s)
Response Ratio
Reject the rebuke and defend yourself by blaming someone else.
0
0.0%
Debate the validity of the rebuke.
9
33.3%
Take it silently but seethe inside.
8
29.6%
Verbally attack the person who rebuked you.
0
0.0%
Take it to heart and pray God will change you.
10
37.0%
No response(s)
0
0.0%
Totals
27
100%

 

When rebuked at home which is your typical response?

Answer

Number of Response(s)
Response Ratio
Reject the rebuke and defend yourself by blaming someone else.
0
0.0%
Debate the validity of the rebuke.
14
51.8%
Take it silently but seethe inside.
3
11.1%
Verbally attack the person who rebuked you.
1
3.7%
Take it to heart and pray God will change you.
9
33.3%
No response(s)
0
0.0%
Totals
27
100%

 

Would you prefer others:

Answer

Number of Response(s)
Response Ratio
Rebuke you when they see something amiss in your life.
23
85.1%
Say nothing and pretend everything is okay.
3
11.1%
Imply something is amiss in your life but never actually say what.
1
3.7%
No response(s)
0
0
Totals
27
100%